SM ninzira idasanzwe mubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina kandi ifite uburyo butandukanye bwo gukina.Sadism na Masochism byerekana ibiranga amashyaka yombi.Hariho itandukaniro rinini hagati yuburyo bwa Sadism na Masochism mubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina.Noneho kubashya Sadism, nigute watangira imyitozo ya Masochism?Noneho reka twigishe uburyo bwo gutoza Masochism.
Inshingano yisoni Sadism iha Masochism ntabwo yibanda kubutumwa, ahubwo yibanda kumasoni.Igikorwa cyurukozasoni nugutera isoni zimbere murwego runini, kandi kubashya badafite uburambe muriki gice, ingaruka ni ngombwa cyane.
Mubikorwa byihariye, urashobora gukoresha amagambo amwe mabi kandi atukana mururimi, ariko ugomba kwitondera ururimi neza.Ubugome ntibusobanura gutukana.Urashobora gukoresha amagambo ateye isoni yerekanwe kumibonano mpuzabitsina.Kubyerekeranye ningendo, Masochism irashobora gukorwa kugirango ihagarare bimwe bitigeze bikorwa mbere.Kurugero, urashobora kwerekana ibice byawe bwite ukabigaragaza rwose.Cyangwa ukore imyanya imwe ya K9, kandi urashobora kandi guhuza Masochism muburyo butandukanye.Nibyo, tekinike yawe igomba kuba nziza, naho ubundi izasa nkidasanzwe.
Mugihe cyamahugurwa, umubiri ntugomba kwambara ubusa rwose.Kwiyambura muburyo nubuhanga bizatera Masochism kandi bitere isoni zitandukanye.Kurugero, koresha imikasi kugirango ugabanye imyenda y'imbere.Birumvikana, ugomba kuzana inyongera.
Shira imyenda y'imbere itambaye mu kanwa ka Masochism.Niba ufite umupira wumunwa, urashobora gusimbuka iyi ntambwe.Muri icyo gikorwa, Masochism igomba kubahiriza amategeko n'ibisabwa na Sadism.Urashobora kwanga ibitemewe mubyukuri, ariko ntabwo byose bigomba kwangwa.Muburyo bwo gutanga amategeko, Sadism igomba kubaha Masochism kandi ntugakore cyane.
Muburyo bwa Masochism bwubahiriza amategeko, niba Masochism ikora amakosa, Sadism irashobora gutanga igihano runaka, nkukuntu SP ishobora guhanwa kubera gukora amakosa.Mugihe uhana, reka Masochism ibare.
Kuberako umukino wurukozasoni wibanda cyane kuri psychologiya, ntishobora gukinishwa cyane, bitabaye ibyo Masochism imaze kumenyera, bizagabanya kwishimisha.Nibyiza kuyikina rimwe mukwezi cyangwa kurenga, kandi nyuma yigihano cyurukozasoni, hagomba gushyirwaho ingufu kugirango dusubire mubisanzwe.Guma mu mibanire kandi ukomeze guhuza ibitsina.
Niba ugenzuye ubishaka ubushake bwimibonano mpuzabitsina nimyitwarire yimibonano mpuzabitsina ya Masochism, igihano gikurikira giteye isoni kizaba kitazibagirana!
Kuri Masochism ukunda agasuzuguro, urashobora kuvuga ngo "Shira igikapu cyanjye mu rukenyerero, fata, upfukame kandi unyure hejuru, uzamura ikibuno cyawe hejuru gato";kuri Masochism ukunda indero, urashobora kuvuga uti "Shyira igikapu cyanjye hejuru yumutwe wawe, upfukame kandi wikurure, komeza amaboko yawe hejuru cyane bishoboka kandi ntuzanyeganyeze."
Ibisobanuro birambuye rwose birashimishije cyane Masochism kuruta amategeko yoroshye.Noneho ugomba kwiga kugenzura ikirere.Ikirere ni ingenzi cyane mumahugurwa, ariko Sadism nyinshi akenshi birengagiza iyi ngingo.Kuki amahoteri y'urukundo akunzwe kuruta amahoteri asanzwe?Gusa kubera ko ikirere gikwiye.
Hariho ibintu bitatu byingenzi byo kurema ikirere: imyambaro, ibidukikije nindirimbo.
Ntibikenewe kuvuga kubyerekeye imyambarire, buriwese afite uburyo akunda.Kwifata bijyanye no kwifata, imyenda ya pulasitike, imyenda y'injangwe, nibindi birashobora kwemerera impande zombi kwakira imbaraga no kwinjira muri leta byihuse.
Kubireba ibidukikije, abantu bamwe bakunda uburyo bwo kwibabaza, abantu bamwe bakunda imiterere yijimye, nabandi bakunda ibidukikije bishyushye kandi byiza.Biratandukanye kubantu, ariko byibuze ntibigomba kuba ibidukikije birambiranye.
Ikintu cyanyuma kandi cyingenzi nukugenzura injyana.Sadism igomba kumenya igihe cyo gukora iki niba injyana igomba kwihuta cyangwa gutinda binyuze mu gusobanukirwa Masochism.
Amahugurwa yose ashingiye ku kwizerana hagati yimpande zombi.Niba Sadism itizeye Masochism, ntabwo izashobora gutanga amabwiriza kubuntu.Niba Masochism atizeye Sadism, ubwo niyo yaba ategeka kandi akayobora, ntazishimira umunezero, kuko adashobora kumvira abikuye ku mutima kandi akitanga rwose.Icyizere nurufatiro nurufunguzo rwo kumenya niba Sadism na Masochism bashobora kubana igihe kirekire.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Mutarama-12-2024
