Muri rusange, abagore barengeje imyaka mirongo itatu bahuye nibintu byose bagomba kunyuramo.Ku bijyanye n'imibonano mpuzabitsina, ntibaba bagifite icyatsi kibisi cyatumaga babona abandi basomana bakiri bato.Benshi mu bagore bakuze bakuze bafite ubumenyi bwihariye bwimibonano mpuzabitsina, nko gutereta, kwishimisha, kwihagararaho, nibindi.
Mfite inshuti magara yitwa Lisa.Umugabo we yagombaga gutandukana na we hamwe nabana kubera impamvu zakazi, kandi bashoboraga guhura ukwezi cyangwa abiri buri mwaka.Rimwe na rimwe ndamugirira impuhwe.Arambiwe cyane kukazi kandi agomba kurera abana.Ndamugira inama yo kuruhuka byinshi mugihe afite umwanya.Buri gihe amwenyura bikabije akavuga ati: “Nanjye ndashaka kubikora!”Nibyo, ninde wifuza gukora cyane?Nashoboraga kwishongora gusa nkamutera inkunga, “uri umubyeyi ukomeye wa pseudo-ingaragu”, byamuteye kurira.
Igihe kimwe narimo ndaganira na we ndamubwira nti: “Umugabo wawe yagarutse nyuma yigihe kinini cyane.Wakora iki niba ufite imibonano mpuzabitsina? ”Yavuze ati: “Niba mfite ibitekerezo nk'ibyo, nzahita ndeka, bitabaye ibyo nakora iki.”Ati: “Ntabwo wigeze utekereza kugirana telefoni cyangwa kuganira na videwo?”Yavuze amwenyura igice, ati: "Biteye isoni, sinzi kubikora, sinshobora kubyemera, kandi sinzi niba atazabikunda.Ubu turi abashakanye, ntukemere ko anseka. ”Yavuze acecetse.
Ariko muminsi mike ishize, mubyukuri twaganiriye nudukinisho twibitsina.Nabanje kwishima cyane.Birumvikana ko ibyo byishimo byatewe nuko nishimiye ko afite imyumvire nkiyi mubuzima.Namubajije nti "Kuki watekereje kugura ibikinisho by'imibonano mpuzabitsina?".Aceceka gato ati: “Ndarushye gato.Ni kure cyane.Mu bice byombi, igihe cyose ndamukeneye, ntabwo aba ari hafi.Ndashaka gusangira na we, ariko aracyari hafi.Ikimbabaza kurushaho ni uko, Ntashobora kumva ubwitange bwanjye numutima wanjye.Yampamagaye rimwe na rimwe, ariko akumva atameze neza kandi bidasanzwe ndetse no kuri terefone. ”…” Ndatekereza rero, niba nshobora kwikemurira ibibazo byanjye ku giti cyanjye, nshobora kubaho gutya ubuzima bwanjye bwose? ”yavuze amwenyura.Nari mu rujijo.Nubwo nkunze kuvuga cyane, mpura ninshuti yanjye magara mumyaka myinshi, irungu rye ryansize mvuga.Nari nzi ko amubuza amarira, kandi yari azi ko ntarinze kumuhobera.Gusa twicaranye umwanya muto, duhuha akonje, kugirango tugumane ikinyabupfura cyubusaza.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Ukwakira-19-2023
