Mu bihe byashize, abantu bumvaga bafite isoni iyo bashakishaga “ibikinisho bikuze”Ku mbuga za interineti.
Kwiyoroshya ni nka kirazira idashobora kuvugwa.Abakobwa bakoresha ibikinisho bikuze bazitwa "bidakwiye" kandi "ntibikunda".
Ariko uyumunsi, irashobora kuganirwaho kumugaragaro no kumugaragaro.
Raporo zerekana ko buhoro buhoro abagore babaye imbaraga nyamukuru ku isoko ry ibikinisho bikuze, kandi ibikinisho bikuze, nkamavuta yo kwisiga, bishyirwa kurutonde rwabakobwa.
Impinduka nini nkiyi itera abantu kwibaza, ni abahe bakobwa bakoresha ibikinisho bikuze?
1. Abakobwa bahura nibyifuzo byabo mubyukuri
Kuki bakunda gukinisha ibikinisho bikuze?Amagambo igihumbi arashobora gukusanyirizwa mumagambo amwe: "byishimo".
Icyifuzo cy'imibonano mpuzabitsina, nko kurya no gusinzira, ni kimwe mu bintu bikenera umubiri wa kimuntu.Kuvuga ku mibonano mpuzabitsina ntabwo ari ikintu abagore bagomba guterwa isoni.Ibikinisho by'abakuzeni igikoresho gisanzwe gishobora kudufasha guhaza ibyo dusanzwe dukenera muburyo bwa fiyologiki muburyo bwiza kandi bwiza.
Muri iki gihe, imyumvire y'abagore irarikira.Abagore benshi kandi benshi biga guhangana nabo, bashimishe ubwabo, kandi bahitemo ibikinisho bikuze bakeneye binyuze mukugura kumurongo.
2. Icyifuzo gito cyimibonano mpuzabitsina kandi gikeneye gukangurwa
Mubyukuri, ntabwo abakobwa bose bagura ibikinisho bikuze ubwabo.Kugirango barusheho kunezeza ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina, abahungu benshi nabo bazafata iyambere yo kugura ibikinisho byabantu bakuru kubindi byingenzi.
Kubera itandukaniro ryimiterere yumubiri, abagabo nabagore bafite ibihe bitandukanye byo kwitwara mubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina.Abagabo bameze nk'itara ryaka kandi ryaka vuba.Ibyiyumvo biza vuba kandi biroroshye kubona umunezero.Ku bagore, ibyiyumvo biza buhoro buhoro.Ntabwo ari ugukabya kuvuga ko "irimo gucanira ubushyuhe buke", cyane cyane iyo umwuka uba muke.
Noneho mugihe cyo kwitegura, umuhungu arashobora gukuramoibikinisho bikuzehanyuma ukore bimwe bibanziriza, hanyuma ugerageze kureka umukobwa yishimire "appetizer" bishoboka.Mugihe cyo gukina nyirizina, urashobora kandi gukoresha ibikinisho bikuze nkigufasha kugirango wongere umunezero.
3.Abakobwa bishimira kwishimana nabagenzi babo
Abakobwa bumva ko ubuzima bwabo bwimibonano mpuzabitsina burambiranye bazahitamo cyane kumenyekanisha ibikinisho byabantu bakuru kugirango bumve ko ari shyashya kumpande zombi.
Nubwo amarangamutima yaba yimbitse gute, ntashobora kwihanganira igihe.Iyo ubuzima bwimibonano mpuzabitsina buhindutse umurimo kandi ntamuntu numwe ushobora kubyishimira, hiyongereyeho ibikinisho bikuze, buriwese ashobora kubona agashya muri "gutera imbere" kandi akanezerwa byoroshye.
Ibikinisho by'abakuzeirashobora guhinduka umurunga w'itumanaho hagati y'abashakanye.Kugira ibikinisho bishya bikuze ni nko kugira urujya n'uruza rushya.
Igihe cyo kohereza: Mutarama-18-2024
